to do is work together with profound respect. That means that at some point in the future, something is going to happen. I don't know when and I don't know what. It may be the first night or it may be six years from now. If and when it does, I want us to have the kind of relationship that means it is safe enough for either one of us to pick up the phone, tell one another what is going on and support each other in finding the solution.